I am a caring and creative Mistress, with a wide range of interests. Often mischievous and inventive in my approach to kink, with a sadistic sense of humour and an open mind, finding allure in the most unusual and ‘weird’ requests.
As your Mistress, I can be soft and sensual, or cruel and sadistic – this all depends on you. Are you a novice who requires a strict but gentle Mistress… or a well seasoned pervert who delights in misbehaving, just to feel the stroke of my cane on your skin? Maybe even a little slut, who would like some training so you may one day graduate into a full service whore?
Let’s explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldn’t you much rather find out in reality, then live another second wondering all that might be?
My Approach to BDSM
From the moment I start the design process of your session, choose an outfit and prepare our play-space, to the way we finish our time together, I like ensuring each encounter you have with me feels special and fun.
For this, each time is carefully planned and tailored to fit your favourite fetishes and kinky needs, taking into account all that you’ve told me about yourself.
Part of the thrill of BDSM is knowing that you are under my full control, that we will be delving into each and every one of your kinks, and over time pushing your limits (if you are brave enough for it!) and you will be released with a smile on your face and fond memories to remember as you walk down the street.
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Dedicated furniture is available for me to strap
you to, hang you from or bend you over. Of
course, timid types who insist on 'no pain' are
also catered for here. Worship and grovelling
at my high heels and hemline is allowed, be
my dog, my coat hook, my toilet, my thing to
fuck or face to sit on. There are loads of
weirdly useful things you can do for my
amusement whilst escaping the stroke of my
crop. Tying you up and getting you aroused
and frustrated is another domination technique
that I employ.
Maybe you love the whip or a strap - or even
better, a cane. I shall not be swinging that
around like a bunch of daffodils, I administer
with purpose. Many CP lovers appreciate a
'warming up' with a spanking before taking
counted cane strokes. Fear not. I also have a
paddle or two and the option of a safe word
should you need it.
There are three types of limits:
Universal Limits: Things about which there is no question. It's not a choice; it's the law. Any sexual activity with children, animals, people mentally/physically unable to consent, or people who have withdrawn consent is always out of bounds.
Hard Limits: Things she will not do because she has personal/moral/health reasons and the limit is never going to change. For many women things like scat, urine drinking, unprotected sex with strangers, cutting, branding or permanent scarification are hard limits.
Soft Limits: Things she is saying she doesn't want to try or do, largely because she has never done them and she has a fear based response to them. After the relationship develops more trust and power some of these limits may be stretched and challenged.Once you have established her limits, you can proceed to come to an agreeable set of do's and don'ts, ideas and guiding philosophies to make her training and life with you successful.
Making a training plan
“Submissives fantasize Master's plan. One of the things that drives the desire of a submissive woman to serve is the freedom i finds in a slave. I am liberated from making the decisions and taking the responsibility for what happens.One of the things that drives the heart of a master is the desire to be the responsible one. His need to guide, to initiate and to bear both the responsibility and pride of a task well-done is what encourages him to continue with the effort. The basis of that power exchange is trust.Training is the period of time where the submissive partner learns to trust you. The more you have a clearly articulated plan for me training and your time together the easier it will be for me to relax and put yourself in my hands.While training can seem unpredictable and challenging to a sub, you don't want it to become so overwhelming that I’ll withdraws from you. The best way to help me is to share your plans with me up front. This helps me see you are following a well-known methodology and not just "making stuff up."If you are a younger (under 30) Dom, you definitely need to show you know what you're doing as there is a bias in the submissive world towards older, more experienced Doms.Sit down “with your sub and explain the plan. Make sure you pick a clear start date and an absolute end date for the period of training. The recommended time for initial training is 2 weeks to 1 month of cohabitation, or 4 weeks to 8 weeks for session work.each session last 3 hours. Both the open and close date should be marked with a small ritual or ceremony (it can be a private one between you both, or one with friends) that shows a clear beginning and end.” And if you would choose a date and wont meet up it would be better no to text me as I hate disappointment and time wasting
“Training time is not what the rest of the relationship is going to be like. It is just the time when the patterns and expectations of the relationship are magnified in order for them to become a life habit. Knowing there is an end to training time will be a help to both of you because it is a tiring phase when you must both be vigilant and address every joy and error.”
Appropriate Attitude
“While "bratting" may be fun on the Internet or for people who aren't committed to one another, a sub who is well-trained will recognize that for the immaturity it is and not fall into such a trap.A good submissive has an attitude made of equal parts of humility, desire, gratitude and pleasantness. She doesn't need to "brat" for attention because she gets enough attention for pleasing her master and has learned to make his pleasure her pleasure as well.A submissive should speak in soft tones. Her words should be gracious and respectful at all times. At no time should a submissive use curse words or foul language. The only exception to that is if you wish her to talk dirty to you during sex. If that is the case, make it clear she is only permitted to do so when you give her permission. Your submissive's speech and attitude should reflect her acceptance of her place in your heart and under your guidance.”
Physical Submission
“Your submissive is turning her body and will over to you in every way. The two methods to solidify that gift are physical and sexual submission. Physical refers to your domination of her body as a vessel of her mind and will. Sexual is the domination of her body for pleasure and intimate connection. Spanking is the primary way you will teach and control your sub during training.”
Other training involves
“Cutting, branding or tattooing.”
“Pony or pet training ”
Humiliation and Objectification
Public practices
Domestic Service
Chastity
Intercourse and Orgasm Denial”
Anal service
Oral service
Sexual submission
Erotic spanking
Maintenance spanking
Punishment spanking
Medical play is one of my specialities and I
have a dedicated fetish clinic called the 'White Room' where I perform weird and cruel
operations and examinations on visiting fetish patients.
I’m also into toilet play ,feminization,orgasm denial, worship & face sitting,femdom worship, bondage, chastity, strap on , role play, & feet ..
Other Fetishes You May Wish To Indulge In
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Anal Play
Armpit/Sweat Fetish
Bastinado
Boot Fetish
Blackmail
Breath Play/Asphyxiation
Ballbusting
Bondage
Caging/Confinement
Chastity
Cock Milking
Cross Dressing
Canning
Cock & Ball Torture
Couples
Castration Fantasy
Choking
Corporal Punishment
Degradation
Double/Multi Domme
Domestic Servitude
Dinner Dates
E-Stim/Electric Play
Edging
Financial Domination
Forced Feminization
Foot Fetish/Worship
Face Slapping
Flogging/Whipping
Gags
Gas Masks
Hand/Nails Fetish
Humiliation
Human furniture
High Heels
Keyholding
Lingerie/Latex/Leather
Leg Worship
Mummification
Mind Fuck/Play
Needle Play/Piercings
Nipple Torture
Orgasm Control/Denial
Physical Humiliation
Pony Play
Pet/Puppy Play
Post Orgasm Torture
Rubber Fetish
Role Play
Ruined Orgasms
Rope
Shoe Fetish/Worship
Slave Training
Spanking/Paddling
Strap-on
Scratching
Shopping Trips
Slut Training
Spitting
Stockings/Suspenders
Sadistic Domination
Sensual Domination
Silk/Satin
Small Penis Humiliation
Sissification
Suspensin
Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)
Tickling
Tie and Tease
Trampling
Verbal Humiliation
Wax Play
Whipping
Let’s talk about tribute
A tribute is not a payment We need to get something straight. A tribute is a form of showing respect and admiration to your superior, it is not a payment for a session
or even my time. Anything you get as a result of a tribute is a bonus. Tribute to please me. Tribute because your cash belongs in my wallet. Tribute because my needs, are more important than yours. Don't tribute because you want to get off and disappear. You are not paying me to cum, you're paying me to add some meaning to your pathetic life.
SAFEWORDS
1) slave is allowed safewords in all activities when necessary and trusts implicity in Mistress to respect the use of said safewords.
2) If a condition arises in which the slave needs to use a safeword, Mistress will assses the situation and determine an appropriate course of action.
Caution: YELLOW, Stop: RED
3) Once slave has recovered, the issues causing the use of the safeword will be discussed and a mutual arrangement for the future will be agreed upon.
4) slave agrees to feel pain, which is part of the training process, and the training cannot be done without it.
How To Find Me
I session from a spacious, luxuriously decorated BDSM studio, The studio has both a dungeon space and more domestic setting, suitable for sitting, relaxing and talking. It is suitable for play, filming and the occasional private party.
The studio is extremely clean, all the equipment is cleaned thoroughly before and after each session, condoms are always used on any anything that goes on any orifice, hygiene and safety are very important to me. There are refreshment & shower facilities (clean towels and toiletries) provided for my guests, so you are welcome to have a shower before or/and after the session (and an enema if you so wish).
The location is discreet and secure so that your safety, privacy & discretion is assured.
Hopefully, no one will know that you have
secretly been visiting your Mistress as my
sessions are discreet, conducted indoors in a
warm and well maintained area. Marks are
sometimes unavoidable, especially in bondage
and CP games, however, I do not purposely
attempt to leave marks, get involved in actual
bodily harm or practice scenes which may put
you in hospital, all of my working apparatus is
kept clean.
