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My name is lauren. But call me goddess Lauren , am a full-time freelance writer in the area of creative and literal writings. I am serious about my writing and even more serious about offering you unique personalized romance and erotica of any genre that is tailored perfectly for you.
I have a wide range of writing experiences, and I will be glad to bring my skills to play by creatively breathing life to your craziest imaginations.
And of course, it doesn't matter whether you have a clear idea of what you want or the direction you want the story to go. I want you to be rest assured that I'm always here to guide you all the way through. With me, you're guaranteed a professional approach to all your erotic story writing needs.
I am a caring and creative Mistress, with a wide range of interests. Often mischievous and inventive in my approach to kink, with a sadistic sense of humour and an open mind, finding allure in the most unusual and ‘weird’ requests.
As your Mistress, I can be soft and sensual, or cruel and sadistic – this all depends on you. Are you a novice who requires a strict but gentle Mistress… or a well seasoned pervert who delights in misbehaving, just to feel the stroke of my cane on your skin? Maybe even a little slut, who would like some training so you may one day graduate into a full service whore?
Let’s explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldn’t you much rather find out in reality, then live another second wondering all that might be?
My Approach to BDSM
“A BDSM relationship isn’t just a work of love; it’s a work of art. Every part of the relationship has been carefully crafted to allow each partner to fit together and make their kinks and desires support the intensity and passion of the coupling.A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training.Some Doms view training as "something you do for 18 year olds or newbies who have never been a sub before." Others make the mistake of thinking their dominance is so “natural” the sub will simply fall into line and know exactly what they want and how they want it. Both ideas are the building blocks for disasters.All men are different. Being trained or having been bonded to another Dom doesn’t mean she knows how to serve you. It means she knows how to serve him.Subs are not natural mind readers; in fact, they are terrible at it. The human psyche often places our own likes or dislikes into the way we read[…]” “other’s feelings and actions. So she may think she’s pleasing you when she’s really just pleasing her idea of what she would like if she was the Dom.It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge.”
Dom's Guide To Submissive Training: “Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. It also allows you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life.This guide is written for the real time (it’s for online training but has to be FaceTime training ) training of submissives with a medium to high level of protocol. It is recommended you start training very strict, and then loosen your requirements to a more comfortable level after the period of training is complete.This guide is also written for couples who do not have children around the house and are living together or have a large amount of access to each other for longer session-based training. If there are children in your home, these practices will need to take place when the children are out of the house or unaware of your activity.”
“There are three types of limits:
Universal Limits: Things about which there is no question. It's not a choice; it's the law. Any sexual activity with children, animals, people mentally/physically unable to consent, or people who have withdrawn consent is always out of bounds.
Hard Limits: Things she will not do because she has personal/moral/health reasons and the limit is never going to change. For many women things like scat, urine drinking, unprotected sex with strangers, cutting, branding or permanent scarification are hard limits.
Soft Limits: Things she is saying she doesn't want to try or do, largely because she has never done them and she has a fear based response to them. After the relationship develops more trust and power some of these limits may be stretched and challenged.Once you have established her limits, you can proceed to come to an agreeable set of do's and don'ts, ideas and guiding philosophies to make her training and life with you successful.
Making a training plan
“Submissives fantasize Master's plan. One of the things that drives the desire of a submissive woman to serve is the freedom i finds in a slave. I am liberated from making the decisions and taking the responsibility for what happens.One of the things that drives the heart of a master is the desire to be the responsible one. His need to guide, to initiate and to bear both the responsibility and pride of a task well-done is what encourages him to continue with the effort. The basis of that power exchange is trust.Training is the period of time where the submissive partner learns to trust you. The more you have a clearly articulated plan for me training and your time together the easier it will be for me to relax and put yourself in my hands.While training can seem unpredictable and challenging to a sub, you don't want it to become so overwhelming that I’ll withdraws from you. The best way to help me is to share your plans with me up front. This helps me see you are following a well-known methodology and not just "making stuff up."If you are a younger (under 30) Dom, you definitely need to show you know what you're doing as there is a bias in the submissive world towards older, more experienced Doms.Sit down “with your sub and explain the plan. Make sure you pick a clear start date and an absolute end date for the period of training. The recommended time for initial training is 2 weeks to 1 month of cohabitation, or 4 weeks to 8 weeks for session work.each session last 3 hours. Both the open and close date should be marked with a small ritual or ceremony (it can be a private one between you both, or one with friends) that shows a clear beginning and end.” And if you would choose a date and wont meet up it would be better no to text me as I hate disappointment and time wasting
“Training time is not what the rest of the relationship is going to be like. It is just the time when the patterns and expectations of the relationship are magnified in order for them to become a life habit. Knowing there is an end to training time will be a help to both of you because it is a tiring phase when you must both be vigilant and address every joy and error.”
Appropriate Attitude
“While "bratting" may be fun on the Internet or for people who aren't committed to one another, a sub who is well-trained will recognize that for the immaturity it is and not fall into such a trap.A good submissive has an attitude made of equal parts of humility, desire, gratitude and pleasantness. She doesn't need to "brat" for attention because she gets enough attention for pleasing her master and has learned to make his pleasure her pleasure as well.A submissive should speak in soft tones. Her words should be gracious and respectful at all times. At no time should a submissive use curse words or foul language. The only exception to that is if you wish her to talk dirty to you during sex. If that is the case, make it clear she is only permitted to do so when you give her permission. Your submissive's speech and attitude should reflect her acceptance of her place in your heart and under your guidance.”
Physical Submission
“Your submissive is turning her body and will over to you in every way. The two methods to solidify that gift are physical and sexual submission. Physical refers to your domination of her body as a vessel of her mind and will. Sexual is the domination of her body for pleasure and intimate connection. Spanking is the primary way you will teach and control your sub during training.”
Other training involves
“Cutting, branding or tattooing.”
“Pony or pet training ”
Humiliation and Objectification
Public practices
Domestic Service
Chastity
Intercourse and Orgasm Denial”
Anal service
Oral service
Sexual submission
Erotic spanking
Maintenance spanking
Punishment spanking
Other Fetishes You May Wish To Indulge In
F
Anal Play
Armpit/Sweat Fetish
Bastinado
Boot Fetish
Blackmail
Breath Play/Asphyxiation
Ballbusting
Bondage
Caging/Confinement
Chastity
Cock Milking
Cross Dressing
Canning
Cock & Ball Torture
Couples
Castration Fantasy
Choking
Corporal Punishment
Degradation
Double/Multi Domme
Domestic Servitude
Dinner Dates
E-Stim/Electric Play
Edging
Financial Domination
Forced Feminization
Foot Fetish/Worship
Face Slapping
Flogging/Whipping
Gags
Gas Masks
Hand/Nails Fetish
Humiliation
Human furniture
High Heels
Keyholding
Lingerie/Latex/Leather
Leg Worship
Mummification
Mind Fuck/Play
Needle Play/Piercings
Nipple Torture
Orgasm Control/Denial
Physical Humiliation
Pony Play
Pet/Puppy Play
Post Orgasm Torture
Rubber Fetish
Role Play
Ruined Orgasms
Rope
Shoe Fetish/Worship
Slave Training
Spanking/Paddling
Strap-on
Scratching
Shopping Trips
Slut Training
Spitting
Stockings/Suspenders
Sadistic Domination
Sensual Domination
Silk/Satin
Small Penis Humiliation
Sissification
Suspensin
Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)
Tickling
Tie and Tease
Trampling
Verbal Humiliation
Wax Play
Whipping
Medical play is one of my specialities and I
have a dedicated fetish clinic called the 'White Room' where I perform weird and cruel
operations and examinations on visiting fetish patients.
There are some other words that you will see and hear many times when talking about BDSM, so it’s better to learn them before you dive deeper into the lifestyle:
- Fetish - a practice or activity that is sexually arousing and makes sex more satisfying, for instance, bondage.
- Kink - this term is very similar to a fetish. It does not necessarily have to be connected to sex but it should be some activity that is very enjoyable. You can find many examples of kinks online.
- Vanilla - in BDSM, this means normal (non-kinky) sex. It can also refer to people who are not into BDSM.
- Play - the act of engaging in an activity related to BDSM.
- Scene - a BDSM activity that involves intense interaction and power exchange lasting from a few minutes to several days, usually taking one or two hours.
Other Fetishes You May Wish To Indulge In
Anilingus
Bondage
Blindfold
cuckolding
Claustrophilia
DIY porn
Electrostimulation
foot fetishism
Food play, also known as sitophilia, refers to a kind of fetish in which individuals are turned on by food in an erotic setting. Fruits and vegetables shaped like penises can be incorporated into food play, with zucchinis, cucumbers, and bananas being used for vaginal or anal penetration,
Klismaphilia is a glamorous Greek word that means “arousal by enemas.” If you’re not familiar, an enema is a medical device that squirts water slightly warmer than body temperature into your anus.
Katoptronophilia is the sexual arousal from having sex or masturbating in front of mirrors or reflective surfaces. While the idea of watching yourself in the mirror might seem like a vanity-based pursuit, the fetish is more than that.
Consent is paramount in kink. If you’re just getting started, or want to slowly introduce BDSM into an existing relationship, both you and your partner should make a list of your soft and hard limits. A soft limit is something that you’re curious about yet unsure if it’s right for you, such as name-calling. A hard limit is something that you are certain is off-limits, such as electrostimulation.
A nylon fetish—yep, as in tights—often accompanies a foot fetish. One with a nylon fetish may enjoy the look and feeling of toes, feet, and legs wrapped tightly in nylon stockings.
Am also into diaper lover very much Diapers can be necessary for adults with various conditions, such as incontinence, mobility impairment, severe diarrhea or dementia. Adult diapers are made in various forms, including those resembling traditional child diapers, underpants, and pads resembling sanitary napkins (known as incontinence pads).
Toilet humiliation is what I look into a courageous slave to take my poop and my pee make me use him and gives him the pleasure he deserved
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How To Find Me
I session from a spacious, luxuriously decorated BDSM studio, The studio has both a dungeon space and more domestic setting, suitable for sitting, relaxing and talking. It is suitable for play, filming and the occasional private party.
The studio is extremely clean, all the equipment is cleaned thoroughly before and after each session, condoms are always used on any anything that goes on any orifice, hygiene and safety are very important to me. There are refreshment & shower facilities (clean towels and toiletries) provided for my guests, so you are welcome to have a shower before or/and after the session (and an enema if you so wish).
The location is discreet and secure so that your safety, privacy & discretion is assured.
Hopefully, no one will know that you have
secretly been visiting your Mistress as my
sessions are discreet, conducted indoors in a
warm and well maintained area. Marks are
sometimes unavoidable, especially in bondage
and CP games, however, I do not purposely
attempt to leave marks, get involved in actual
bodily harm or practice scenes which may put
you in hospital, all of my working apparatus is
kept clean